DISCONNECTED MARRIAGE?
Without Pushing, Performing, or Waiting for Her to Change First
You're not struggling to make ends meet. You've built something. You handle what needs handling. And you've succeeded in other areas of your life - you know how to figure things out.
Which is exactly why your marriage feels so frustrating - you're used to solving problems, but your effort isn't landing in your marriage.
This isn’t about fault or blame.
It's about the leverage and influence you still have.
If you want to...
• Rebuild emotional and physical connection - naturally
• End the tension and walking on eggshells - feel confident in every moment
• Bring back warmth, appreciation, and desire
• Become the man she can’t help but want to be close to again
Keep reading - because what you’re about to see is the shift that changes how she feels around you.
I'm the founder of The Happy Healthy Marriage Reset.
And my wife and I separated in 2017. Months earlier, things had seemed 'fine', when suddenly our future together became uncertain.
I wasn’t a bad guy. I provided. I cared. I tried. And I genuinely thought I was doing what a husband was supposed to do.
When she got distant, I thought…
Maybe she’d changed…
Maybe there was someone else…
Maybe she just didn’t love me anymore…
But what I found was something else...
I’ve worked with more than 400 married men across dozens of relationship situations - from early disconnection to separation/paperwork filed - helping them get desire, appreciation, and respect back by creating emotional attraction.
What actually works is shifting how she FEELS around you.
When you learn to create emotional attraction, she naturally:
• Becomes warmer and more responsive - naturally opening up & leaning in
• Lowers her guard and forgives the past - emotionally present
• Wants to be close again physically and emotionally - without being asked
This isn't manipulation. It's understanding what draws women in - and what pushes them away. And when you get this right - everything shifts faster than most men expect.
Week 1-2: Conversations stop feeling like tests. The constant tension begins to lift. You feel more grounded, confident, and in control again.
Week 3-4: Interactions feel warmer. Her guard starts dropping. Conversations feel light and easy. She’s opening up more and resisting less.
Week 5-6: She seeks you out, relaxes around you, and physical affection returns naturally - without prompting. The emotional connection is rebuilding.
Week 7-8:
She looks at you differently - desire, respect, and attraction are back. Connection feels natural. You’re no longer walking on eggshells. You have the marriage you've been wanting.
This isn't theory. It's the pattern I've seen in hundreds of men who've gone through this process.
One client came to me with his wife saying she was 'done' and him feeling like every conversation with her was a test he was failing.
If she was distant, he’d try harder.
If she was frustrated, he’d explain more.
If she attacked, he'd either get defensive - or shut down.
By the end of most nights, he felt rejected… misunderstood… and quietly hurt.
Not because he didn’t care.
But because nothing he did seemed to land the way he intended.
Working together, within the first couple weeks he noticed...
He stopped reacting from urgency.
He stopped trying to “win” conversations.
He stopped needing immediate reassurance.
She became warmer.
More receptive.
Less defensive.
And she wanted to be close again - not because he pushed, but because she felt drawn back in.
At this point, you've probably tried a lot:
Being more helpful around the house. Apologizing more. Trying to communicate better. Giving her space when she pulls away. Being more patient.
And yet the distance keeps showing up.
Here's why:
Attraction, warmth, and connection come back when the emotional dynamic shifts - when how she feels around you changes.
But most men are trying to fix surface-level behaviors and explain their way into their wife opening her heart back up.
That doesn't work.
Because you can't change her mind without first changing how she feels.
And she's never going to suddenly decide on her own to start opening up and wanting to be closer - without you making a change first.
What actually works is creating emotional attraction - showing up in a way that creates safety, invites connection, and naturally has her lowering her walls, forgiving the past, and wanting to be on the same team again.
I call it 'Healthy Pulling' - a shift in emotional positioning that naturally draws her back in - instead of accidentally pushing her further away by trying harder.
She relaxes, lowers her guard, and wants to be close again - without pressure, persuasion, or explaining.
That's what happened in my marriage. And in hundreds of my clients' marriages too.
Not because we convinced our wives to change.
But because we became men our wives naturally wanted to be close to again.
Most guys don’t struggle because they lack information or aren't trying hard enough.
They struggle because no one has ever helped them identify - in real time - the exact shifts that reignite attraction and connection… and held them accountable to actually implement it.
That's what I do.
In 8 weeks, you’ll create a marriage she wants to be part of again: warmth, attraction, respect, and connection naturally return.
Here’s how we guide you:
✓ Week-by-week guidance on creating attraction instead of pressure
✓ Real-time support when you're stuck or facing a difficult moment
✓ Proven frameworks that work even when she's not "on board"
✓ Accountability to ensure you're actually implementing (not just learning)
This isn't information. It's transformation.
It’s not cheap. But neither is divorce - or living the next 20 years in a marriage that feels dead.
And when you consider what's at stake - your wife, your kids, your home, your future - the real question isn't whether you can afford it.
It's whether you can afford NOT to.
I offer a limited number of spots each week for men who are serious about solving this permanently.
On this call, we’ll look at:
• What’s actually happening in your dynamic (not just the surface-level situation)
• What she’s likely responding to emotionally - even if she hasn’t said it directly
• The patterns that may be quietly making things worse
• The specific shifts that would create the biggest impact in your case
By the end of the call, you will have clarity on exactly what's going on, and what you can do about it to create a happy, healthy marriage.
If it’s a fit for us to work together, great.
If it’s not, you’ll still leave clearer than when you came in.
This isn’t about becoming someone you’re not.
It’s about removing what’s been quietly killing desire - and restoring the dynamic that creates it.
Ready to reignite desire, warmth, and connection - and become the man she naturally wants to be close to?
Apply for your Marriage Reset Call below.
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"I was skeptical anything could actually change things, but booking this call really helped me see things clearly. Chris showed me exactly what I was missing and what needed to change. Three months later, my marriage is better than it's been in years."
- Mike R.
The strongest marriages don’t improve by chance - they improve when someone decides to lead the shift.
Right now, you’re either continuing the same pattern, or beginning a different one. This conversation is where that new direction starts.
Calmer - no longer spinning in the same cycle...
Confident – knowing exactly what to do to change the pattern...
Clear – on how the Marriage Reset process works, and whether it’s the right fit for you...

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